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  • Who’s on First?

    Sometimes its good to laugh at ourselves and have a sense of humor at the mess we find ourselves in.

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  • Community Health Heroes

    Recently I was on Community Health Heroes with Dr. Penny Walker…

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  • Sleep Better

    Sleep is the ultimate equalizer when it comes to mental health. Read up on the latest and greatest sleep tips and get better night’s sleep.

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  • Check Your Engine

    A check engine light coming on has one purpose, to let you  know something is wrong. Without going on a Seinfeld-like rant (What’s the deal with check engine lights?!), let me say that it doesn’t really look like an engine to me, and I am fan of cars.  It certainly…

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  • ADHD Treatment

    Ride the ADHD Wave

    Every day we have certain periods of higher energy and focus.  Sometimes we try and supplement that focus with food or caffeine, and with varying success.  People with ADHD have to be particularly attentive to these times of the day. A common mistake that I find my clients facing each…

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  • Traveling with a Baby

    One of my professional passions is helping young families.  Personally, being a father is a role that I cherish and believe to be one of the most important roles that men have in our society. For the first two and a half years of my daughter’s life, my wife and…

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    “If you don’t don’t believe in yourself, then the vote is unanimous.”

    -Jerry Argovitz

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  • Hitting the Right Chord

    As an amateur musician, I have come to understand that there are many ways to play the same notes.  We can read and talk about playing music or performing, but it takes multiple attempts and failures to get it right.  I have found this to generalize to life as well. …

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  • ELI5: How do you leave Work at Work?

    This is a question that, as a mental health professional, I often receive from my clients about their lives and about my life.  I’ll speak from my perspective and let you generalize from there. Psychotherapy is, at the core, a study on how building relationships can change people’s lives for…

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  • Effective ADHD Treatment

    Oftentimes, when people talk about the symptoms of ADHD, they focus on the DSM label – Attention & Hyperactivity.  Unfortunately, this gets in the way when people look to treat the symptoms.  Namely, a medication-only approach to the treatment of attention and/or hyperactivity can be incredibly underwhelming and can delay…

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  • Gaining a New Perspective

    “Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or your self-confidence.” -Robert Frost I picked up this quote from Eric Wagner, Ph.D. when he was discussing the intricacies of the counseling process. I like this quote because it speaks to my experience as a therapist,…

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  • Opportunity Knocks

    Rahm Emmanuel, President Obama’s former chief of staff and current mayor of Chicago, once (in)famously stated, “You never let a serious crisis go to waste.  And what I mean by that it’s an opportunity to do things you think you could not do before.”  This statement came at the outset…

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  • The Panda Project

    A few years back, the San Diego Zoo heard from the Chinese government that their request to get a Panda was approved.  They would have exactly one year to complete its enclosure and accept the rare Panda.  Zoo officials were overwhelmed.  Not only would this bring in much needed revenue,…

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  • Putting on a Front

    I recently read an article on the idea that there are a defined number of “fronts” that we use when deciding what to post on social media, specifically Facebook.  He identified them as: The Partier, The Socialite, The Risk-Taker, The Comic, The Institutional Citizen, & The Eccentric – oddly closely…

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  • Two Sports Stories for the Soul

    I was speaking with a man the other day about therapy.  He mentioned that he had heard how therapy was not the best format for men.  He argued that men often relate in different ways or at least like to be involved physically while talking, as opposed to sitting in…

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  • Making an Error

    I recently read the book, Moneyball, and thoroughly enjoyed the quick pace and how Michael Lewis made people like Billy Beane and Bill James jump off the pages.  For those who haven’t read the book, it focuses on how baseball teams that spend much less money can still be successful.  Instead…

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